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Noticing, Learning, and Growing
9 May 08Research indicates that attitudes towards older adults and about ageing develop early—as early as the preschool years. Studies also show that experiences with older adults directly and positively affect these attitudes, allowing children to form their own impressions rather than adopting stereotypes.
The preschool age is an ideal time to talk with young children about ageing, as they probably are starting to perceive and talk frankly about differences in appearance, for example. A combination of experiences with older adults and conversations about how ageing is a natural process that each of us will experience and can celebrate will help your child develop a healthy understanding of life and a positive notion of her own growing and aging process.
A Little Drum A-Drumming In My Heart
Musical experiences with simple instruments are engaging for all, and drums truly have a universal appeal. Perhaps it has to do with that drum each of us travels with everywhere we go—our heartbeat.
You will need a drum for this play-along. If you don't own a drum, consider creating a simple one with a suitable bowl and spoon from the kitchen, or consider purchasing one. Invite great uncles and great aunts to bring a drum and come visit for a "drumming play date." Or travel with your own drum to visit grandparents at their homes.
As you and your child establish or initiate relationships with older relatives and friends, here are some other ideas to help you get started.
- "Adopt" a grandparent. The holidays bring many visitors to seniors in group care settings. Meanwhile, other times of the year can be quieter and potentially isolating for some. Inquire at a senior community about programs that pair families with seniors for social interaction. Initiate contact this month and plan to visit each month going forward to continue the relationship.
- Invite a grandparent or great-grandparent to visit with you and your child, or invite them along to your child's birthday celebrations or other events.
- Encourage your preschooler and his friends to put on a show for the grandparents. They could act out a scene depicting children showing respect and thanks to the elderly or even sing to their grandparents.
Plan an arts and crafts activity that will create a cute gift for the childrens' grandparents.